Would you leave your 4year relationship if your spouse went through your cell phone? ?

I told my fiance that I checked a message of hers out of curiosity and she went ballistic on me. Of course tempers flared and i believe that we are over for good. But just wondering if anyone else feels that it would be a big enough problem to end a relationship over.


I mean, I wouldn't care if she went through my stuff because I have nothing to hide. What's mine is hers and vice-verse. What do you think?Would you leave your 4year relationship if your spouse went through your cell phone? ?
I agree with you. True you shouldn't have gone through her phone--though in my relationship my husband and I grab the phone all the time. Whoever is closest checks it and half the time someone is calling wanting to know if the 2 of us can get together Saturday. As I'm the one who knows that, they really wanted to talk to me anyway.





She went ballistic on you for checking a message? Odd. Did you think she was cheating? If so, your relationship didn't have much trust. But for her to go so ballistic over something so simple, she had something to hide. The traditional way to handle that is to put the other person on the defensive.





After 4 years, and probably thinking about marriage, yes what is yours should be hers and vice versa and the relationship should have trust. If you are checking her phone to try to catch her you are in the wrong. Otherwise, she is.