How terrible do you consider a spouse having sex with someone else while in the divorce process?

its wrong morally. i think its almost as bad.How terrible do you consider a spouse having sex with someone else while in the divorce process?
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How terrible do you consider a spouse having sex with someone else while in the divorce process?
the relationship is over, altho not legally yet.... so its not terrible cuz both are over each other. also in response to ';37'; whoever that user is, well its more of a question: how in heck do they value the relationships if the divorce is takin place? ppl need to READ the question before attempting to reply.
not terrible..obviously if you're gettin a divorce..the damage is done and you guys are over so move on. It may hurt but you gotta deal with it.
I think it is awful!
The divorce process is not really a part of the marriage...it's just the legal wrangling after the marriage is over. If there is sex during this process, it really doesn't matter.
not terrible at all
its ok, anyway the spouse is on its divorce process
It is totally wrong because you are still legally married. It just shows his/her true colors, if this person valued this relationship at all they would wait until they were divorced.
If you're already in the divorce process it's not a big deal, it's just some salt in the wound for the one you're divorcing.
having sex or making love according to me is got to do with feelings. it does not matter at what stage of relationship is the person. its the feelings that matter. if a person is married on paper but in his/her mind the marraige is over and he/she is in love with someone else and makes love with that person it does not matter coz the feelings for the spouse do not exist in the mind and heart. to make love its important to feel the love and if there is no love, what one does is not important. thats what i feel. Hence if the divorce proceedings are on means that the marraige is long since over and under those circumstances, what ever one might do is not cheating or hurting the spouse coz had the feelings still been there and the marraige was still alive, the divorce proceedings would not have been going on. Once a relatioship is dead, it does not matter what the other person does in his/her life. Atleast this is what i feel.
By the time divorce proceedings begin, does it really matter?
cheating. not divorced yet.
Honestly I don't think it matters. I mean they're getting a divorce aren't they.
with out getting into moral judgments or what marraige means to different people in this day and age.....I think you shouldn't think about or care....the divorce is in progress.....the sooner you move on the better....I know it still hurts from experience....but wisdom says...the pain will go away....and do something that will lead to a better future and have enough self respect to not allow anybody to have control of your feelings....only you can do that
that actualy ok i thunk.
just freaks who are on for that matter which cant be helped