Is any one else bored to death with their spouse.?

Been married too long nothing in common anymore seems we try to avoid each other more and more each day.


Tried to get her to do the things I like she won't.


She just want to sit watching tv or be on the computer


When we talk it is always about her interest not mine


Ask to go to a counselor she wouldn't but things got a little better.


Now I just don't care


What to do?Is any one else bored to death with their spouse.?
Get rid of her. Refusing to go to counseling should have been the last straw. There are women out there who will give you a new lease on life and make you feel wonderful.





Dump the dead weight.Is any one else bored to death with their spouse.?
Accept divorce as a final outcome. Ironically, nothing will get better until you do that.





You tell her you are willing to put six months of effort into rebuilding your marriage. Avoid outright saying the D word and never even imply it again after this. You do what you can to make yourself a more responsible person and a better spouse in that time (including diet and exercise). The triple purpose is to actually improve yourself, actually improve your marriage, and better prepare yourself for dating again should she decide to not also make an effort.


Reconnect with some of your old friends and get out of the house on your own a few nights a month.





Generally, you should go out with your wife once a week - i.e. date night (get a baby sitter).


Then each should go out with your friends several times a month and each of you can spend that evening or weekend afternoon with your children. Do things the kids like to do....
Being married too long, I suppose, is a relative term. For some, six months may be too long. For others, 50 might be too long. It depends on how long before you realized it's been ';too long.'; Here is an easy way to find out how much time you have before you die of boredom if you stay married. If you aren't willing to wait the number of years predicted by this formula, then perhaps you should considered getting a divorce. Multiply your age, 35 (for example) by 2. 35 x 2 = 70. Subtract the number of good years - in this case 8, total 62. Subtract your age at the time you were married, in this case 25. 62 - 25 = 37. Subtract your real age from 37, which gives you 2. If you can't see yourself with this person for another 2 years without doing anything to correct the situation - then dying of boredom... then it may be time to part ways.
You need to establish when things started to go wrong in your marriage. At one point you loved this woman, and no doubt you still do however there maybe something bothering her that is making her act this way. I can only urge you to chat to her and try to ascertain why she is not interested anymore. You mention that you try to get her to do things that you like, have you ever thought about doing things she likes or better still what you both like. I mean if you have been married for so long there was obviously some mutual interest that you had in the first instance. A marriage is a 2 way street and if you are both not willing to put in the time and effort then no it won't work out. Sometimes the simplest thing such as communication can sort a heap of troubles.
idk i dnt have that problem with my man i do all the sex things he wants, i clean for him i wash and cook and lay his clothes out for him when he comes home from work he also gets a foot rub and i tell him to relax and play his ps3 while i do it
I know how you feel! Just try and work on things to the best of your abilities, if it doesn't work for you anymore. I'd say as sad as it sounds, move on. Life is pretty short, no need to be miserable.


Best of luck to ya ;)
It worries me that she is on the computer a lot when she could be spending time with you...My aunt left my uncle for someone she met online (they had been married 20 years). Just throwing it out there!!! She sounds incredibly selfish!


Bless your heart...I hope everything works out for you!!
I feel bad for you and your relationship. Maybe suggest that it's time to move. Life is too short to be unhappy. Make the most of what you've got!
Obviously she doesn't want to be involved in the marriage with you so let her out!! There are more fish in the sea.
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tell her to make u a sanwich

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