If your spouse wanted to dress up as a alien character from ';Star Trek'; and take you to the bedroom...?

Could you do it?





I'd go for it and thank the Lord for FINALLY something besides the same-old same-old. :-)If your spouse wanted to dress up as a alien character from ';Star Trek'; and take you to the bedroom...?
Yeah, that'd be awesome... especially Borg. Definitely Borg. OMG think of the kinkiness that could come from *that*... ';Resistance is Futile';. ::eg::





Hmm... Thanks for the idea. ^_^





Then again there are very few things we haven't tried, unlike some people here on Y!A who seem to think that being sexually adventurous is equal to being mentally disturbed. ::lol::If your spouse wanted to dress up as a alien character from ';Star Trek'; and take you to the bedroom...?
You know, it would be strange, but my wife and I are both silly, and I would go for it once. I think I would hope it was just once, but expect we would have fun. We tend to go for other ways of breaking up the same-old same-old, but I can see how someone could have some laughs over that.





And Invisigoth is right. My wife just isn't a Star Trek geek. It would probably be a different costume if she were the sort to pull something out of a TV show or movie or game.
LOL. been there, done that. (does the expression Klingon Kleavage mean anything to anyone?)





Rocky Horror is another favorite.





That's the kind of thing that happens when you hang with geeks. they are such pervs! ;)
Well it would not necessarily be my ';dream scenario'; but what the hell...i am up for almost anything if it makes him happy, i would go for it.





';beam me up scotty!';
My husband is a Star Trek Freak! I think since I have the short blonde hair and am a more dominating than him.. I am pretty sure..





6 of 9 would be his fantasy of all fantasy's!
No thanks, maybe if he dressed up like a character from ';Gladiator'; LOL
Depends. Usually, sure, but what if she wants to dress up as a Ferengi and then give you oral? Those teeth are pretty sharp...



I've always had the hots for Worf. If he could dress up as Worf, I'd be all over it. mmmm... hot Klingon sex.
WHY ARE PEOPLE HATING ON HIM???








Honey!! Go for it!!!! Ive never seen Star Trek but whatever makes him happy!!





People are rude!!!! Have tons of fun girl!!
No. Star Wars would be better. She'd be Padme.
Is your spouse really sick. WOW.
No, never, no way, ever!!!!! Star Trek? Really? NO WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


I want a real man!!!



I would think the person has some major mental issues they need to work out
Give me Q, now! ;) (I like difficult, annoying men).
I'd tell him to ';Clingon'; for a rough ride!
I never liked that show.......major turn off.
I would do it for him, and probably LOL the whole time
sure. why not

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How do you know when fighting with your spouse crosses over to mental abuse?

your crossing the line when you don't treat that person the way you wnt to be treated.How do you know when fighting with your spouse crosses over to mental abuse?
When it moves away from the issue you were fighting over to remarks meant to bring you down or make you feel less than human.How do you know when fighting with your spouse crosses over to mental abuse?
When it becomes demeaning and makes you feel bad about yourself and isn't about any particular problem.
When it hurts your feelings.
When it doesn't feel right and it causes you to come on to Yahoo answers to verify feelings you already suspect. (not being a smart a.ss here, I'm serious) Your get is telling you something your mind already suspects. Keep to the subject you started talking about. Make sure both parties keep their voices at a manageable, conversational level. And stop the conversation when either of these two things change. Good luck.
Every fight is mental abuse. The word fight means to attempt to harm or gain power over an adversary by blows or with weapons, to engage in a quarrel--argue. Fighting is not good for any marriage. Seek the Lord JESUS Christ for resolutions. Be Blessed!
When they break down and cry.
when you start feeling like you want to kill yourself. when you become dehumanized and dont feel equal in anyway. when you are put down all the time etc etc

Help! What can I do when my friend is emotionally and mentally incompetent and her spouse is dumping her?

Her emotionally and verbally abusive husband of 22 years has siphoned off all the equity from the house, found a girlfriend and wants to dump my friend with half the marital debt (from loans he has taken out lately). After being a stay-at-home housewife for all those years, she went back to PT work and earns $150 a week from which she pays for her own food and expenses. He even demands rent, etc. Now that he has a girlfriend, he wants her gone. She is so incapable of doing anything for herself except for showing up for a simple grocery store job and is nearing breakdown. He says he will not pay alimony or give her half the pension (which he can't do by law, I know) and he wants to go through mediation to have her agree. She is so fearful she will do it. She mentioned thoughts of suicide.





How can I help prevent her from being thrown on the streets with nothing? How can I help her?





By the way, we have documentation of his anger problems (he broke a co-worker's jaw, his meds, etc.)Help! What can I do when my friend is emotionally and mentally incompetent and her spouse is dumping her?
Contact your local ';legal services';, they're sometimes free or sliding scale. Get her to talk to someone about her legal rights. Then try the local mental health services to see if they could help.Help! What can I do when my friend is emotionally and mentally incompetent and her spouse is dumping her?
She can't be THAT incompetent, can she?? If she doesn't go out and get a lawyer and file for divorce, then there's nothing you can do to help her.
You cannot answer this for her. Just be there to support her, but get in touch with a lawyer and any women's support groups you can find.
Yes, if she has mentioned suicide at all - make sure she gets professional help for that - everything else is secondary.
Have his leg broken by a masked man.. need a phone number?
i had to see someone that was there too. and i went and got her a attorney for getting her the house and i worked. she was in a divorce and didn't know her rights to keep the house and so i had to get it all done and when the lawyer had all the papers done. i went to her and said you come with me and sign your name and everything is yours and the was history and she was okay after that
have her bring her documentation with her. Also, you can get an advocate from a domestic violence project to support her in court. Keep doing what your doing, she needs your support as a friend. The worst thing she can do is isolate herself in anyway.





I would bring her out for a night on the town, to show her what she has been missing. Let her know that life will go on, and it will probably get better than she ever new it could be.





It would also help her to get her onvolved in a domestic violence support group, just so she doesn't have to feel alone. Let her know, that there is nothing wrong with her, but it is normal to feel this way, when you are treated so bad, by someone you gave so much of your life to. Let her know she it is better to be alone, then to be treated like this. No one deserves to be treated like this. When my grandfather died, the last thing he told my grandmother, was he wished he never married her, and he waisted his life with her. She is 87 years old now. It broke her heart, and she deserved so much better. She is humble, and catered to his every need, beck and call. But even at 87, she is living her life, like, way more than i live my life. She is really strong.
That sounds awful and it's so hard to see someone going through something like this.


I think the most important thing is to NOT PUT YOUR OWN SANITY AT RISK.


It's so easy to get caught up in other people's drama's and then your health and your life can suffer because of it.


If you are able to help and stay 'emotionally detached' then that is good, but do not get sucked into a void where you are constantly thinking about her and worrying about her. Your own life will suffer.


This is her life and she needs to sort it.


You are not responsible FOR her.





I think you can support her emotionally and encourage her, but I would be cautious about having any more involvement than that.





Good luck and if you have concerns of suicide, I don't know what to do, except I would be asking for help from my own friends, because that is a heavy weight to deal with on your own.


I would probably encourage her to get some sort of professional help.

What would you do if you saw your spouse in an Adult movie?

from their younger days doing very nasty stuff like multiple partners and taping it for all the world to see?What would you do if you saw your spouse in an Adult movie?
I'd send a copy to everyone she knows for Christmas. Including her divorce lawyer.What would you do if you saw your spouse in an Adult movie?
I was very honest with my husband about my past when we first started dating:


he knew I'd made some mistakes and that someday those mistakes may pop up at him from the internet,


he choose to stay with me anyway





I should hope that if he had any looming skeletons in his closet, he would have done me the respect of warning me early on.


However, my vows were for better or worse, and I suppose I could understand a person being too embarrassed to mention such an issue, so I would definitely have to stay.


It would be hard on his military career if anything like that ever came back to haunt us, but we would find a way to work through it together.





PS, how exactly would you find such a movie unless you were ';nasty'; enough to look at those ';nasty'; types of movies? If you veiw porn then you have very little room to talk, because you enjoy the product those actresses are making. And honey, even porn actresses have a right to grow up, find love, and do something better with their life. Just because we make a mistake doesn't mean we have to live in slum the rest of our lives.
Something I've never understood is why people who watch porn or strippers also harshly judge the entertainers they'd just enjoyed watching. If there were no willing audience, then such movies or performance acts wouldn't exist, now would they?





Where do you think ';those people'; come from? I'll tell you...EVERYDAY families, that's where! How do you know your MOTHER didn't make an adult movie, or your sister may have worked as an escort or dominatrix in the past or even the present? I actually find your attitude rather offensive...and here's why. I have a daughter who is a very nice and kind woman, a good mother and hard worker...but in the past, she was also a dancer and made ';adult'; films...No, I wasn't happy about it when I found out, in fact I was very ashamed and embarrassed...but despte my feelings I STILL didn't turn my back on her! Why? Because she is my daughter no matter what and I love her unconditionally...regardless of whatever she has done in her past! Also, it wasn't about me...it was her life choice and she has the right to make her life choices, just as I have the right to make MY life choices, just as you have a right to make YOUR life choices...with censure or condemnation from others!





I also know personally of many other ordinary and perfectly nice, well-adjusted people who are now good and loving spouses, parents, grandparents...people who are also churchgoers and community volunteers who now have regular jobs...but who also in their younger years chose to 'sow their wild oats' i.e. they sometimes did things that were perfectly legal but weren't always so nice or 'respectable'...maybe they entered a wet T-shirt contest (like I did on a dare when I was 28) or maybe they were music groupies, exotic dancers, lingerie models, phone actors, escorts, etc. You'd never know it to look at them, though...and they did those things for a number of valid and not-so-valid reasons.





At any rate, it's not your place to judge others...ESPECIALLY if you are using such services...doing that is such an inexcusable double standard, not to mention just plain rude!





Way I see it, if you really and truly love that person as much as you claim you do, then you won't condemn them, put them on a guilt trip or hold the past against them...unless you're just looking for an excuse to break off the relationship. Maybe this is really more about deflection.....perhaps have an unsavory ';past'; of your OWN that you desperately are trying to hide! Unless someone has lived in a plastic bubble all of their lives, I doubt you'll find ANYONE, male or female, who doesn't have some sort of a ';past'; of some kind, especially if you're both past the age of 30.





Also look at it this way...would you want a person who claims they love you holding anything from the past against you...especially if the thing happened before you even met them?
My husband used to work in the adult film industry. It is something he did years ago, well before he met me. He was honest with me in the beginning of the relationship, so I felt that his past is the past. I am completely ok with the knowledge. He is the most honest and sincere person I have ever met. Now, if you ask if I ever want to view said movies, the answer is no. I have seen the pictures, but i don't really want to see him in the act.
wow im sorry i dont even know how those ppl can mentally accept n do those things for $$ i will feel real nasty and disgusted about my self after been with that person thats something that should of come to light when ya started dating it was suppose to be ur choice if u wanted to be with an xxx lady . good luck . and ok now i have a question for u do u feel anything i mean down there when ur making love to her ?? is it true that a vagina adjust to any size bcuz i seen this videos before n they look pretty loose
I think I would ask if he was still getting royalties! If not, it might be time to make another one. lol





Come on now, people have pasts that have nothing to do with their current partners. Who are you to condemn someone for their past, a minor god or something?
WOW LIVING WITH A STAR,,,


ID BE AMUZED THEN WE WOULD TALK....


THEN GET SOME POINTERS...





PAST IS THE PAST ,,,I CANT CHANGE IT..SPOUSE WOULD KNOW THE RERCUATION IT WILL DO..SO WHY SLAP IT ACROSS THE FACE...ITS DONE ITS DONE..





LETS HOPE YOU UNDERSTAND THE ISSUES THAT WERE GOING ON AT THAT MOMENT IN THEIR LIFE...





PUT YOUR SELF IN HIS OR HER SHOES WHY YOU DID..WHEN YOU DID,,THERE IS SO MANY WHAT IF AND COULD OF'S


THE PAST IS THE PAST...





YOU FELL IN LOVE WITH THIS PERSON BECAUSE WHY..?????
I would be mad that he didn't tell me up front. That'd be a bad surprise. I guess if I loved him, I would give him a chance to explain. Maybe he was young and stupid and made a mistake. But he should have told me about it.
what they did in the past is their business. nothing should be held against them for the actions they took before you. i myself, would watch the movie with her.
How can you hold something against someone before you knew them or they knew you ? It may raise some questions but I am not sure my feelings would change.
I would first get tested for HIV. Then bring it up and talk to him about it. If it was before there isn't much I could say.
You know those are real people, and they have feelings too.
id be very disgusted. i know i would need some time aloneto get over it.
I would divorce and use it as evidence in court to state my case...
To be honest, I might get a bit upset at first, but I would find it to be a huge turn on...
You take your mate for bad or good.The past is the past.
have you been talking to my husband lol
My response : '; Oh sh*t!! Someone found our tapes!';

I keep on having dreams that my spouse is cheating on me and is planning to run away,what does this mean?

while my boyfriend was on holiday i kept having dreams that he was cheating on me there, my boyfriend is lovely and isn't the cheating type and isn't showing any suspicious signs so i wonder what these dreams mean...does anyone know?I keep on having dreams that my spouse is cheating on me and is planning to run away,what does this mean?
It was probably anxiety from his abscence. If you are confident that he does not cheat then I would chalk it up to anxiety. I would have a talk though. Did you cheat? maybe something is on your mind. I am just throwing things out there.I keep on having dreams that my spouse is cheating on me and is planning to run away,what does this mean?
To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem.






Yes, this is probably not about your bf. It usually means that YOU don't think you are worthy of his love or that you are considering how exciting it would be to cheat. Are you feeling poorly about yourself lately?
why you think that way is because of your belief system. you need to renew your mind. He is not cheating on you. convert that negative thought to a positive one and see that you will have a lovely relationship.
i think you are probably insecure and the dreams are a result of that. dont look to much itnt it unless you a phsychic
I don't know...probably since you think its okay to marry cousins.

What's up with this Yahoo Answers Spouse thing?

Lately I've seen a lot of questions asking people to become spouses on yahoo answers. Can anybody explain this to me?





This did make me feel lonely though, as I don't have a yahoo answers spouse. Anybody interested? hahaWhat's up with this Yahoo Answers Spouse thing?
haha, i didnt know anything about it.


but, in that case, i dont have a yahoo answers spouse, either. or a yahoo answers boyfriend.. haha.


i'll have to look into that one..... :]What's up with this Yahoo Answers Spouse thing?
haha.. :]


well email me sometime or something :]


katbrat9@yahoo

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I haven't heard/seen anything about it.
What? I haven't seen ONE question on that today.
They're just having fun :)
weddings all around!!
I haven't seen any questions about that... it just seems like you want a yahoo answers spouse =/

Should I get another dog even if spouse doesn't like the idea?

My spouse and I have this on going arguement. I want a little lap dog for me and a playmate for our Gordon Setter (she gets along well with other dogs).





My spouse relented finally about my idea and said OK but doesn't want any part of it. He made it clear he will not have anything to do with the new dog when we are at home or when we take them on camping trips with us.





We have plenty of room for two dogs, a large fenced in yard and we are both home all day. So I would like to know if anyone could give me the pros and cons of getting another dog when you have no moral support from your Spouse? Is it a bad idea?Should I get another dog even if spouse doesn't like the idea?
I honestly don't think I would get a new dog if my husband said no.Actually he has said no.But then again I already have 4.I do understand how you feel,I'd have a 100 if I could but I have a good marriage and don't want to have anything between us.It is your decision but I would think on it considerably before I did.Should I get another dog even if spouse doesn't like the idea?
It's not ideal because the dog should be loved and appreciated by everyone in the household. I'm sure once you get a new one your spouse will love it. Probably by the next morning!


Maybe go to a shelter and pick out a dog together?
I hate to say go against your spouse. If he doesnt want another dog right now, it would be better if you didnt get one. But if you are going to get one anyway, im sure your spouse will grow to love it. It'd be hard not to!


Maybe find a dog you know he'll fall for, pick some sort of dog he likes.


Think hard about his feeling though. Is that really how you want to treat your spouse?


=) Good luck!
My friend got a dog when her spouse didn't want one. Even though it's a sweet dog, it causes tension every single time it enters the room if her spouse is there. The dog is a constant reminder of how my friend didn't respect her husband enough to come to a mutual decision about whether or not to bring a living creature into their home.





At least in your case your spouse said OK, even if it was reluctantly. It will be sad for the dog, though, if one family member completely ignores it.
well why doesnt he want anouther dog if theres plenty of room? i guess it would depend on how much he hates the idea. maybe he invsions a lapdog as a noisy yappy thing that runs circles around your ankles, if thats what hes looking not to get id just make sure to get a balenced little dog who wont bother him. an see if he agrees to that conditon
That's no way to treat a dog, let alone a husband.

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My spouse has pinworms and is treating it today?

my question is should I treat myself today also?My spouse has pinworms and is treating it today?
Threadworms are often present in more than one family member, and the best way to guarantee eradication is for all family members to be treated simultaneously. The answer is yes! And repeat the treatment in about a week.

Can u handle the truth from your spouse's affair?

Would u rather your spouse to confess every single details of their affair to u after being found out, or would u rather live with their white lies forever if they had promised to remain faithful after this episode.Can u handle the truth from your spouse's affair?
I can't handle reality! My husband of 15years is currently having an affair. I have been aware of all the dirty details. I can't get the strength to divorce or move on because sadly I'm hoping it runs its course and he re-commits to our marriage.Can u handle the truth from your spouse's affair?
Everyone reacts differently, but vast majority of the victims of betrayal questions if the spouse ever loved them, and if so, what they might have done to lose it. It is as if the adulterous spouse has thrown dirt in the river of their marriage contaminating the water behind them and before them.


To recover from trauma, a victim has a natural tendency to go back to the traumatic experience, questioning, going over details repetitiously: “What did you do? Where? When? How often?” The traumatized spouse must go over the events until the emotional distress caused by them becomes manageable. They must reach a point where they feel there are no more surprises.


Often, the betraying spouse wants to get things over quickly, after admitting to their infidelity. They must develop empathy for what the betrayed spouse is experiencing, and be willing to live with the pain of guilt, until genuine healing can occur. In addition, the betraying spouse may learn something about them self in the questioning process. They may begin to see their own motives, vulnerabilities, and selfishness. If both spouses can tolerate and control the emotions involved, they may come to a joint understanding of how the infidelity occurred, signaling the beginning of a more substantial level of recovery. Recovery usually takes 1 to 3 years.
I can say from my point of view being the spouse that was cheated on, and that demanded knowing details, that knowing details has only been a source of pain. now I have places that remind me, things that remind me, all these details that I wanted to know now are the things that hurt me everyday. BUT, not knowing likely would have destroyed me just the same, just in different ways. The one detail that I'm glad I found out was the fact they didnt use protection. this resulted in a prompt trip for myself and wife to be tested for STD's. What i would like is a pill that would allow me to forget the entire affair and allow me to love and trust her the way i once did. If the affair was the wound; the details are absolutely the infection! Good Luck to you!
Its amazing what people ask to know but can't handle the truth. This is a hard one only because it mostly depends on the person receiving the info. Its like saying ';I promise not to get mad';. I think it's best to just give the general information, ';I had an affair';. Saying ';yeah and she did me like this, and I did her like that, and the table fell over cause we were going from room to room, knocking everything over and breaking things.'; ...is just way too much info and wouldn't do any good for anyone. Now, if you have pictures........................lol


Best thng to do is maybe describe what you were looking for that you felt was lacking in your realtionship that led you astray so you two can work on it
I think that it depends on whether you can handle the truth. I am engaged to a man who I am estranged from in Chicago, and he has another woman. I held out longer than he did and I have a friend who I finally had sex with a week ago. What I mean by holding out, is that we have been separated 3 years, communicate by telephone, and for the first time in 20 months, I finally let my guard down. He waited a year at the most. I am fine with the situation because my being in Mississippi when he is in Chicago makes me unable to do anything to stop it, and once I am back in Chicago, I can stop it then. I would want to know because I would want to know how long he has cheated and when it began.
What white lies? The details are not lies, the affair was the lie. If you choose not to know the details, and personally I would't care to know,


the only thing you have to learn is to trust in yourself again. What I mean about trusting yourself is this: You probably never believed that this could happen to you. I know I didn't. Now, I know better. I allowed my blind trust, and sometimes things happen. I chose to trust him again, because you cannot live with doubt all the time, it would drive you crazy. If it were to happen again, I'd be a lot stronger for myself in the knowledge that I can trust myself to move on. Does any of this make sense?
I was seeing a married man and his wife found out.





Me and her spoke on the phone after she found out, and she asked me to tell her the truth, as he had whitewashed the whole lot.





Initially she totally believed me, but once HE had got to her, she did a 180 and later told me I was ';lying'; and he ';would never do that to me'; - even though I sent her (as she asked) all his texts, emails and photos of us together. I told her the names of his best mates, his mum's name and phone number (he used to call me from his mum's phone), what his car looked like, and other stuff I could only have known by being very close to him.





She was, I guess, blinding herself to save her, ahem, ';marriage';.





She is still with him and he has since tried to get ';back'; with me. She will ignore all the signs again, no doubt. And now she's the idiot, as she knows what those signs are, even if she did not last time.
me idk either way if he cheats there is something im not doing rightt... so i might want to kno what that was so i can fix it but if it happens again no not rreally... as far as every little detail NO just the ones he think will make the relationship better between him and i
no, because it has happened to me and I did not like the mental picture it gave me, and had to deal with it, then knowing it was my so called best friend just made it worse, because I already knew how many and who she has already been with just gave mw the creeps.
the truth is they cheated,no way for me to ever get over that.They violated a trust and no way to get that back,once a cheater always a cheater,kick them to the curb
most likely. no play by play details, one probably knows spouse's tendancies. no to the lies, stop asking about what is known





stop being boring
It should not matter, if you truly love your spouse, then get on with your life and try to work on your marriage to make it healthy and strong.
Wouldn't matter. Wouldn't want to know, wouldn't care.





Once this bond is broken, it's done. Anything else and you're lying to yourself. No thanks.
No I would want to know and I would want t know why. I cannot stand anyone who cant be honest and can you Really trust someone who promised to stay faithful? after all in the marriage vows you promise to stay faithful.........
I would like to get every detail. Pictures, videos, the works, to assist my lawyer in the divorce case.
I would want to know SOME details. Like how long it was going on, why, where, all that important stuff. But as far as details details.....no. It would hurt worse having the mental picture.
Whether I stayed with him or not I would need to know every single detail.


My curiosity would eat me up inside, and I know for a fact that I would imagine things 50 x worse than they really were.
I asked for what happened, it hurt me a lot, though it did turn me on a bit, but hurt more than anything.
In a twisted way, I'd want to know. I guess I'm masochistic that way.





But it's doubtful that I'd forgive and take them back. That's just me.
idk how everyone else is but i need to know everything that happened
I would leave them , so I would not need to know
I must be honest, I would not want to hear all the deatils.
i wouldnt have to decide because i would leave them if there was an affair
noooooooo I WOULD WANT TO KNOW!!!!
I would want to know. Not that it would alter my decision...she cheats, she's gone. It's that simple.

For the divorcees: how long did it take you to start referring to your spouse in the past tense?

I just know it's going to be so hard to refer to my husband as an ';ex-husband';. How long does it usually take to start doing it on a regular basis. Also, if you are in new relationship, have you ever found yourself referring to your ex as ';my husband'; or ';my wife'; in front of your new significant other?For the divorcees: how long did it take you to start referring to your spouse in the past tense?
Well, as soon as I found out the reason he was leaving after 24 years, I started to call him ASSHOLE...and 4 years later, that's the only name he'll ever get from me.





Our grown children don't like it, but I just pretend he's DEAD when they're around. Even better, lol!


And yes-- I have moved on, remarried, happier than ever.


How he went about it earned him that name.For the divorcees: how long did it take you to start referring to your spouse in the past tense?
I made an effort to start before our divorce was finalized (it took about 8 months total) and I'm doing pretty well, except when I talk to people about things or stories that occured during the time period I was married, then sometimes I mess up. Otherwise, I would say it took at least 3 or 4 months to get really used to the ';ex'; portion.
Personally as soon as it was legal to do so. It was amicable as this allows for a speedy and uncomplicated exit, but that's a personal call .. it's up to you, but I have a feeling when you feel it's time to move on you'll say it before even realizing you said it



Yes, that is normal and will take time. They say it takes one-half the length of the marriage to get over someone. Just really start working on saying my ex and it will eventually become natural to you!
It all depends on how p*** off you are, the truth about 6 months. you might even forget who he was, unless you have kids, then it makes things harder, he's not your ex he's your babies daddy.
1) about 2.4 seconds after separation


2) no, but I have referred to my new partner as husband as he feels more like one than my ex ever did
i agree with mrs g, as soon as he left i began calling him asshole, and that's all he will ever be.
I started early.


As soon as it was finished and papers filed.
day one!
No I don't I just call them my Ex's

Have you ever had coitus with your spouse while staying over night at a friends house?

Sure. I mean a friends place is not quite the same as your parents or in-law's house. We might tone it done a bit but I think that it is safe to assume that as a guest, once you leave, people are going to change the linens and bedding that you used.





Sometimes we even strip the bed in an obvious indicator that the sheets should be washed. There is something kind of fun about sneaking in a little affection where it might be a little naughty or forward.





Luckily for me my wife kind of likes that sort of thing... I don't think we are inappropriate in any way but we have christened some odd places... lots of fun memories and sly smiles to share.Have you ever had coitus with your spouse while staying over night at a friends house?
Yes. Well, not overnight, but on Christmas. At his friend's house in the bathroom. We snuck away one by one, lol.Have you ever had coitus with your spouse while staying over night at a friends house?
Of course, many times, lol. We're happily married and always love the thrill of breaking in a new location.....using discretion of course.
Sure have, and families house too. As long as you're quite, and discreet I dont see a problem with it.
Not sure. If you are discreet. Quiet. Neat. What you do as a couple is your own business.
Heck yeah. Why wouldn't you? A true friend wouldn't mind.
Yes, but not in the guest bed.

Ladies how would u feel if your spouse has to take a job miles away and can only do the weekend commute?

It's a difficult, but survivable, situation. My husband is currently 3,000 miles from home, since November. We flew to him for the holidays, and he was here for 4 days a couple weeks ago, but that's it as far as commuting. It's not easy, but we talk every day, and we know it's temporary, so we can get through it.Ladies how would u feel if your spouse has to take a job miles away and can only do the weekend commute?
that would be so hard to be apart for that long that i would look to see if i could find a job out there or see how bad he needed the job and could he look more local. i wouldnt like it at allLadies how would u feel if your spouse has to take a job miles away and can only do the weekend commute?
If it was nec. for work/monies I could deal with it. I trust him, hes my best friend. I'd miss him terribly but you do what you must to get by. If I din't trust him, it might be different.
Well if thats a temporary thing i would have managed somehow. But if its a thing for atleast few years to come...i would have definitely moved with him
I would feel good about it. Looks like your spouse is taking the job to provide a better life in the long run for you.
Easy. We would both move to that place so we could be together.
I would hate it!
short term is ok

DO you ever get sick of your spouse?

Here's the deal im not married yet but i have been with my guy for 5 years. The reason we didnt get married yet is we are not financially ready. The thing is im getting sick of him? Is that normal? If you have gotten sick of your spouse before how did you fix that problem? The reason that im asking here is because we practically are married.DO you ever get sick of your spouse?
It is known as 7 year itch although you are not married but live like married couple. In the 1955 movie ';The Seven Year Itch,'; Marilyn Monroe tempts her neighbor to stray while his wife and children are away for the summer. Ever since, the seven year itch -- a period of restless angst -- has been used as an excuse for infidelity.


Now, a study suggests that such an itch is often a reality. An evaluation of 93 married couples during their first 10 years of marriage showed two typical periods of decline. (A decline was defined as a decrease in marital quality measured by taking into account passion, satisfaction with the relationship, amount of shared activity, and agreement between the partners.) he marriages started with a bang (with passion usually high), but after the ';honeymoon effect'; wore off they showed a decrease in overall quality over the first four years. The marriages then tended to stabilize before another decline set in around year eight.


The first decline, is probably a normal adjustment to new roles; the second decline is often related to the birth of children. Couples experiencing the seven year itch disagree with each other more, become less affectionate, share fewer activities, and express overall dissatisfaction with their marriages.


Statistics support the idea of a seven year itch. According to the most current figures available from the National Center for Health Statistics, the median duration of marriage was 7.2 years for couples who divorced in 1989 and 1990. Consult your partner before making plans or decisions, and if you both do that, you'll find you both get to do more of your own things. Set aside time to talk on a daily basis, even if it's just 20 minutes. Take time to get dressed up and go out on dates. If a marriage succumbs to the seven year itch, it's most likely because the couple turned a blind eye to their problems instead of solving them.DO you ever get sick of your spouse?
Are you sure it is truly him that you are sick of or just the circumstances that you are in? You say you are not financially stable enough to get married? I am sure that must really bother you and maybe make you feel like he is less than a man for not providing for you both? Has he said or not said things to you that would make you feel this way?





No I never get sick of my spouse. He is so much a part of me. Yes we all get tired of certain things, but you work thru it. You work thru all the little problems that crop up. You work thru them and move forward.





It is only when one or both partners stop wanting to work on the relationship that you run into problems.
Yup. It's called marriage. You spent A LOOOOOT of time with your spouse, and it's completely natural.





You can do one of several things:





1. Take a day to yourself. Call into work one day during the week, when he has to go in, and make it all about you. Enjoy the time you have to yourself, and remind yourself how lucky you are to have your husband.


2. Make a date with the girls! And make him make a date with the guys. I am a FIRM believer that each person in a relationship needs to have their own thing - maybe he golfs with his buddies and you shop with your girls - whatever it is, do it. You won't get bored with each other so quick if you actually have stuff to talk about with each other.


3. On that note, you each need to develop or nurture your own hobbies. Not only should you find your hobby interesting, it should make you more interesting to your partner, and vice-versa. My husband fishes - he's passionate and almost downright philisophical about it. I love listening to his stories.


4. MAKE TIME TO SPEND REAL TIME WITH EACH OTHER. Yeah, the guy sitting next to you on the couch in his boxers watching a re-run of Family Guy IS the man you married, and he CAN get boring. But even just a weekend trip t a hotel...where the whole intent is the focus on each other...can be a great boost to your relationship, and help alleviate some of that boredom.





Good luck!!!
I can't say I have. Been together for 5 years, and look forward to coming home from work every day. We enjoy our time together. Actually, I was just reflecting on how much enjoyment I get from the relationship - I used to get very lonely when I was on my own, and now my life is more rewarding. If anything, we're closer now, after 5 years together.





Not sure that being ';sick'; of your S.O. is the right feeling to have after 5 years. Of course, marriage isn't all rainbows and butterflies, but I do feel that it should be positive on the balance. If you don't feel your relationship is positive overall, try to figure out why it is so. Do you guys have different goals? Do you feel abandoned/ignored/disrespected? Do you feel some fundamental needs are not being met? There's no one ';fix'; for it - first you need to identify what some of the problems are in your particular case, then address them as appropriate for your particular relationship. It's different for everyone.
Hell Yes, my husband has gotten on my nerves so bad that i wanted to run him over wit my car. But of course i didn't and i would not. Your level of ';sickness'; is the concern here. They are going to get on our nerves and at times, we are going to look at them and be like WTF? But if the love overrides these times you are fine, but if you find your self misrable more than happy, there is nothing to make that better, that MF just not for you.
No sick of him ,sometime I was to choke the crap out of him but I will be he wants to choke the crap out of me.......wait a couple of days it goes away. Been married for 30 years...I love him to much to leave, its only natural for this to happen to a certain point.
Yeah I get sick of my husband sometimes, I think it happens to everyone. Maybe you just need to break from your routine and do something spontaneous or out of the ordinary to make things more interesting.
Yes I do get sick of my spouse sometimes. It happens and other than just dealing with it, there is nothing you can do.





%26lt;------ My husband is practically perfect and I still get sick of him
Are you with each-other a lot? I think every couple need a certain amount of time apart. I don't mean a break, just some space every now and again, some time alone or with friends, or you will get sick of each-other.
You don't you get over it, you just get enough of it, throw up or blow up, make up and start the cycle all over again. Sorry!
When I get sick of my husband, I just make sure his restraints are tightly fastened. Then I leave the room for a while. It's sound proof, so I won't have to hear his smart a z z comments.
Sometimes well ok all the time I get sick of him but I just learn to work around it and tolerate it. But I'm not ever sick of loving him.
yah, i think thats completely normal. thats why you should be able to do your own things sometimes and not constantly be around each other 24/7
Only every day. If you aren't married and you aren't sure if he's the one, then don't do it.
get out now it only gets more boring after you are married
It's like the tide! hi %26amp; low- in %26amp; out!

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When you were attracted to your bf/spouse, did you think others felt the same way you did about him/her?

I mean, that's where the green-eyed monster in you comes out.


If someone else liked your partner, would you wonder what attracted them to him?When you were attracted to your bf/spouse, did you think others felt the same way you did about him/her?
Yes! But you are the one who is with him! Isn't that great!





Don't worry about anyone else. He chose you! Besides I know he is not the only one who likes you! Right? And You chose him! Enjoy yourselves and each other.





Good Luck!When you were attracted to your bf/spouse, did you think others felt the same way you did about him/her?
Yes. I kinda wondered y I got him...because of that fact. But I did. HE picked me out of all the other possible girls he could've married. I should feel special...and I do, but the wonderment still gets to me sometimes. No. IF I liked him, I'd think other girls did too. And I'd assume why they did. Because I know I do..and I'd figure that's y.
Sure...I don't think I' the only person who has ever found anyone i've dated attractive, just as they aren't the only ones who've found me attractive. It's no reason for jealousy though...especially when he's with me, not someone else. 鈽?br>




If I knew someone else liked my partner, I wouldn't wonder why at all...I'd assume they are also attracted to at least some of the same qualities that I am.
No, and NO. I was and am surprised other women don't find him attractive and I am glad that he is mine! :)

My wife & I are celebrating our 43rd Anniversary today! How long have you & your spouse been married?

Actually, we observe two anniversaries every year, as we met for the first time on April 29, 1964 and were married on December 19, 1964. This was the first marriage for both of us and so far it has worked out! Praise the Lord! Has anyone else been married longer to your spouse? The first one who says they have will get ';Best Answer'; and 10 points! {:-)My wife %26amp; I are celebrating our 43rd Anniversary today! How long have you %26amp; your spouse been married?
Ok I have been married almost 7 or was that 8...haha!


Congrats! My parents have been married for 36 years, them too were only 1st weddings.


I remember thinking in school, wow your parents are divorced! B/C back then every one was married, now to the kids it is no big deal about the divorce--they are just surprised that people stay married.


So you are one of the blessed fortunate ones! You found some one that will put up w/ you and you can in turn, do the same, isn't that the best thing about REAL true love...it is work, but just so easy!


That is comitment, because your heart is in it.


The Bible says the two become one--how does a true 1 seperate it's self?


:)My wife %26amp; I are celebrating our 43rd Anniversary today! How long have you %26amp; your spouse been married?
Thank *all* of you for your answers and congratulations! I wish all of you long, happy, marriages to the one you love! God Bless and Merry Christmas to all!

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Congratulations.


my Hubby and I are 12 years in March. 1st for both of us too.





My Grandparents were 54 years when Grandpa passed away. The even made it thru world war 2 and the deaths of 2 babies (total 12 kids, 10 living....LOTS of grands and great-grands).





Wishing all of us many long happy years,
Well its not me only 16yrs for us ( thats like baby steps for you :)) Congradulations to you both!!!! And Merry Christmas too
sorry can't beat yours, just 9 yrs for us but congratulations.
We've been happily married for 19 years. My husband and I were just newlyweds when I enlisted in the Army during Desert Shield. I survived and so has our marriage. We now have an eleven year old daughter, too.
CONGRATS!! 43 years, WOW. Thanks WONDEFUL





My hubby %26amp; I just celebrated our 1st. anniversary this month. It's not a first marriage for either of us. He has been divorced twice and I was divorced once and widowed once at a very young age with young children. How I wish I would have made better choices my first time and stayed married forever to just 1 person. But then I would not have met my hubby and he really the best thing that has ever happened to my 4 son's and I.





Mary in Beulah, MI. USA
Not me-- but awesome Congratulations!
No, I have been married for 14 yrs, but my grandparants have been married for 62 yrs.





I would be luck to live to 62 yrs less be married for 62 yrs.
That is a wonderful thing and proves that love can last the test of time. I'm not even married, I've been dating my best friend for two years now and still going strong. I hope we can be as happy together as you and celebrate a 43rd anniversary. Congratulations. ;]
Congratulations! I havent been married longer but I have been married 8 years to my best friend of 14 years!
Great job!!! My parents were married for 52 years before my father passed away.
Not after the points! Wanted to congratulate you both on a job well done! I have been married to the same man for thirty-five years.
Congrats! We have been married 26 and plan on staying together till the end. God Bless all who stay married to one spouse!

My spouse told me if you accuse me of cheating then i miles well?

How should i feel about this? then he says i would never cheat but just wanted to warn you if you accuse someone of cheating they may. should i be mad about this? i do not accuse him of cheating i just said you do not treat me the way you used to. Im afraid i do not catch your eye like i used toMy spouse told me if you accuse me of cheating then i miles well?
He's friggin crazy - girl, saying that you don't treat me the same as you use to is nowhere near accusing someone of cheating. Open your eyes - sounds like he may be a little guilty of something if he is accusing you of accusing him of cheating.....My spouse told me if you accuse me of cheating then i miles well?
Yeah. He's stupid.





=( You didn't accuse him. And there's no reason to ever cheat. If he feels that way, he's likely to cheat easily. He might be already since he's so defensive. If you were to catch on and accuse him then turned out you were right, he could say ';It's fair because you accused me of cheating!'; So it could be a trap hmm?
Asking a question in the right way is better than unnecessary misunderstandings, u meant something else %26amp; he took it in a different way. its not ur fault nor his. just ask him openly what u want to know %26amp; get a proper answer %26amp; if he doesnt give a proper ans, whack him a cabbage roll. hey he didn't mean what he said %26amp; dont think u have to take it too seriously. U jus make sure u catch his eye %26amp; make up..... have fun, dont worry....
that's strange. you didn't say anything about him cheating and he comes out and says that? sounds like he's already cheating and trying to give himself an excuse to do so.
Maybe he feels guilty for something. I would start going through his things.( I am being serious. I would. ) You may find something you dont like



i dont think you should be mad about it cause its the truth you did not exactly accuse him of it but its leading to believe he dose
He miles well? That's funny, I usually kilometres well. Let's hear it for the metric system!
Thats bad tell him u dont meant to accuse himen he should not have told you that talk about it something fishy
Sounds like he has a guilty consciences about something...
1st of all i think i know what your taking about, but i might not so what are you saying?

My spouse and I have talked about the possibility of an open marriage, any ideas on how to start/read?

I brought it up. He was at first reluctant but has now sort of warmed up to the idea. I have already stepped out of the marriage-I wanted to find out if I could do it and I told him about it. We have been together 8 years and we are both early to mid 30's-still look good/attractive.My spouse and I have talked about the possibility of an open marriage, any ideas on how to start/read?
Yeah.... you should start by swinging..... find a club and go together.... then go from there. Set up rules and make sure that you are both okay with it and that you let each other know when you are ';going outside the marriage';. Oh, and get checked for STD's!!My spouse and I have talked about the possibility of an open marriage, any ideas on how to start/read?
if he's ok with it then go for it. it's my experience that that kind of thing strengthens a relationship if your both into it. If not, it may just kill what you have. Keep seeing how he feels and remeber not to push it to much.
A lot of couples and singles post ads on www.craigslist.com - just click on your city and then go to casual encounters in the personals section. It's free and you can include a pic if you want to.
Seems you've already started down that road.
There are many web sites out there for swingers. One is ';BayCouples.com';. You can read profiles from other couples as well as single men and women. You can also post a profile of your own telling others about you. The two of you need to be clear up front about what you want and do not want out of this. Most people on these sites are very respectful of others boundaries. But in order for others not to cross any lines, YOU have to decide what those lines are.
you got married to be with you rspouse why go outside of the relationship you might as well kept dating. What if one of you bring a disease home to the other. I feel that if you don't want to be committed then why be married?
Well if hes just warmin up to the idea.. find another couple that is equally atractive to both of you and that has am open relationship.. talk, hang out, and see if anyhting happens.. in my own opinion, if you want an open marrage, then you realy dont want to be married at all.. but as long as your not doing my man.. then go for it!!
I'm sorry,but I think it's sad that people think they can have it both ways. You made a COMMITMENT to be with your husband, and only your husband. If you can't handle it, you never should have gotten married.
try looking at this link:


www.thecottageinpa.com





It's a swinging club for couples. nice place.
ok this is strange..basically you want to have your cake and eat it too. if he is reluctant you will ruin your relatoinship so why don't you just leave the poor guy and let him find a woman that is happy just being his wife and not wanting to run around having sex with strangers? what is the point of being married then? good luck to your hubby.
An open relationship denotes a relationship (usually between two people) in which participants are free to take other partners; where the couple making this agreement are married, it is an open marriage. While 'open relationship' is sometimes used as a synonym to 'polyamory' or 'polyamorous relationship', these terms are generally differentiated with the ';open'; in 'open relationship' usually refers to the sexual aspect of a non-closed relationship, whereas polyamory refers to the extension of a relationship by allowing bonds to form (which may be sexual or otherwise) as additional long term relationships:





Some relationships place strict restrictions on partners (e.g. polyfidelity); such relationships are polyamorous, but not open.


Some relationships permit sex outside the primary relationship, but not love (cf swinging); such relationships are open, but not polyamorous.


Some polyamorists do not accept the dichotomies of ';in a relationship/not in a relationship'; and ';partners/not partners';; without these divisions, it is meaningless to class a relationship as 'open' and 'closed'.


Some polyamorists consider 'polyamory' to be their philosophical orientation 鈥?they believe themselves capable and desirous of multiple loves 鈥?whereas 'open relationship' is used as a logistical description: that is, it is how their polyamory is expressed or implemented. They would say of themselves, for instance, ';I am polyamorous; my primary partner and I have an open relationship (with the following ground rules)....';


However, there is enough overlap between the two concepts that 'open relationship' is sometimes used as a catch-all substitute when speaking to people who may not be familiar with 'polyamory'.





Several other forms of nonmonogamous relationship are listed at poly relationship.
watch Opera, she always talks about things like that
If you cant be comitted to each other why did you bother to marry in the first place. Your husband would be doing it only for you. Realise that if that is so your are torturing a man who is living just for you.
Why would you get married if you don't want commitment? try role playing..Dress up..Talk with different accents. Make your marriage fun. If you have already ';stepped out of the marriage'; then what you both need are a couple of good lawyers. When you are officially single again, then you may do what you want with as many people as you want.
You probably just started down the path to ruining your own marriage. Many, many people have tried the same thing, but most do not stay married. If you can take it back then do so, but the damage is probably already done even you haven't seen it yet.
Is nice to know that you are both attractive and good looking but you should only be with one another. Marriage is for two people not three or more.bringing another person in the relationship is going to do nothing but bring harm to the relationship
Don't do it. Marriage is a commitment between two people. There is no such thing as an open marriage. If you wanted to sleep around then you should not have gotten married.
WOW, that is a tough one! I honestly don't think I could stand the thought of my husband with another woman. I would constantly wonder what it was like, if he liked her better, and the dreaded what if he fell in love with her??





Don't jump into anything you will regret.
Do you have kids? That may be a soar spot depending on how he feels. Like anything you have to take small steps.
All I can say is beware. There are chatrooms and message boards online where you can find other couples or singles interested in being with marrieds. It is not a black and white issue though and while it may seem okay to both of you today, years from now you may feel very differently. The past will be brought up again and thrown in your face, I hope you are ready for it...
I would think about it and not make any hasty descions. I have a friend who is male and him and his wife had an open marriage, which is now sour. They have two children and she is pregnant with someone elses child, which isn't his. This is the second time this has happend. This is something that may sound good now and may be fun for a while but could cause serious issues within a marriage.
My hubby and I have had an open marriage for the past 7 years.





We have a don't ask don't tell policy.





Here are our rules...





Do not ';date'; anyone


Must be someone the other person does not know


Must never stay over


Do not make it obvious


Wear protection





After setting up your rules we have not had to talk about it since. I have done nothing and I don't know if he has or has not and I like it that way.





Hope this helps.
Make sure that's what you really want to do, because as soon as someone else gets his attention you may not be able to get him back. That's if you still want to be with him. Or just get out the marriage totally.
I don't understand how anyone who got married doesn't understand that marriage is to one person, and if you have a relationship with someone else other than your spouse it's wrong. If you want to be with other people you shouldn't have gotten married and should now get a divorce.
Seems like you are trying to justify your cheating on your husband. Best of luck to you both with your decision but a word of caution......... JEALOUSLY..... it can kill destroy a relationship... there are so many other areas to open marriage besides just having relationships with others
Go to this website www.escort.com find someone in your area and try it out... you will have to come out of pocket but atleast you know you will get laid... or you can try adultfriend finder or swingers.com... there are endless sex sites to hook up with people and couples... but the only thing i say to this is CONDOMS,CONDOMS, CONDOMS..... WHAT GOOD IS HAVING FUN IF IT CAN CAUSE YOU YOUR LIFE IN THE LONG RUN.

What's so wrong about sending nude photos to someone who isn't your spouse/partner?

when u do something like this, there is a motive, its to cheat, and get the person your sending this to to become interested in u. its wrong, its a betrayal, and its a selfish act. it only means one thing when u do this, that your planning to cheat.What's so wrong about sending nude photos to someone who isn't your spouse/partner?
number one you are in a relationship and there are do's and dont's. you arent supposed to flirt with anyone else or even think about anyone else because you are with him. commitment. stay focused on him. your body is kind of shared btw the two of you even if you arent being sexual. how should he feel if other guys see your body while you are with him? i would dump you if you were my gf honestly because he should be the one those pics are sent to.What's so wrong about sending nude photos to someone who isn't your spouse/partner?
Objectively nothing, but it's not considered socially acceptable, as you can see by the answers that are mostly along the lines of ';that's just wrong';. Everyone knows it's ';wrong';, but no one can explain why. One of these assumptions that are never questioned.
Well, its a violation of trust and the commitment you have to your spouse. It is definitely a form of cheating and is unacceptable.
I do not see the harm in it, it's not like your having sex with them, just filling a sexual need. So while your sending your pictures to your friends, go ahead and send pictures of your spouse/partner to the rest of us voyeurs.
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Ok, I will go slow. What's NOT so wrong with it? Unless of course the thought of divorce excites you as much as this game you are playing.
Riddle me this, would you want your partner/spouse sending pics of their naked body to someone? How would that make you feel? Inadequate? Betrayed? Used? yea...
Well I would be ticked off if my man started sending pics of his lovely penis to women because then they would want to see it in person, and I'm just not sweet enough to share that well.
It depends on the relationship you and your spouse/partner have.


IF you are very open or swingers, fine. If not then know.





NiF
Because they will almost always end up in the wrong hands.





If you want nekkid pics of me Mammal you're gonna have to take them yourself;)
If it's to your medical professional, I wouldn't see the problem with that. Are they your tattoo artist? Maybe a fitness guru?
You apparently are a dumbass Im suprised you could even type the question.
Um, Really? Yes that's bad, hense you're being unfaithful, and that's not what it's all about.
Nothing, provided you both have no spouse/partner.
Reminder to Mick: please stop filling up GCG's inbox.
Nude photos of whom? Rosie O'donnel? You know that is just wrong in soooooooo many way.
There's something wrong with that? Sh*t
They run more risk of ending up somewhere you don't want them like the internet.
Reminder to self...start sending nudes to Lady Sass
Nothing lol, kidding
Nothing. I like the ones yo momma sent me !
Your mom shouldn't count.
Sounds like a good way to end up single to me!
Hmmm, tough one Mammal...





This one requires some serious thought.
Are you serious...because it's like cheating
WOW, I think my 6 year old kid could answer this one!!!
What's so right about it?
kidding right...
hey send me some!!!
Hey...there you are! LOL...nothing. Where's mine?
are you for real no i don't think you are... how old are you anyway?

If you are married: is it okay to flirt with anyone other than your spouse?

Just curious to see people's answersIf you are married: is it okay to flirt with anyone other than your spouse?
No. No way. Absolutely not.If you are married: is it okay to flirt with anyone other than your spouse?
If you feel that you have to flirt with someone else other than your spouse, there is something amiss in your marriage and it should be resolved as quickly as possible. Communication is key, understanding also goes a long way too. You haven't ';technically'; cheated, but flirting is just a doorway to make your marriage and life very complicated and stressful with no positive outcome.





My advise, stay away from all temptation. I realize your still a human, but you must have control over your baser instincts. If this is someone just seeking advise or someone who is getting themselves in trouble, you don't need to go and start a fight, but please communicate with your spouse with an open mind to get to the root of the problem.





Best wishes
My husband is a big flirt. At first, I didn't mind it, because I am a flirt too. But when he stopped flirting with me and only flirted with other women (especially my friends) I got really annoyed. When I told him about it, he quit flirting with them as much and started flirting with me again. I think its fun, and there is nothing wrong with it as long as you treat your spouse the same as you treat the ones you are flirting with.
Maybe you could reverse that and get your answer.





';Is it okay for your spouse to flirt with anyone other than you?';





Where does flirting end anyway? In a single's world, flirting is the lead-in to a relationship because it gets the other person interested in you. Is that comfortable in a marriage?





I think not.
definitely not! talk about violation of trust..what are you thinkin?


marriage is a game???Do you want to break your wife's heart?


She trusts you, she's wearing your name and your ring.


How would you feel if your wife was flirting with some good looking guy...(behind your back or in front of you) or if she was going along with some guy who was showing her alot of attention without putting a quick STOP to it?





When you got married and you made all those promises--were you just joking or did you mean it? Do you want to destroy your relationship? Figure out if your marriage is important or not and act accordingly. If it is at all important to you, then get real and stop playing games. It's not fair to your wife and it's not fair to the other woman.
As long as it's harmless and doesn't mislead anyone, then I have no problem with it. My man is a flirt and I accept that about him and find it amusing for the most part, expecially when he flirts with my granny, it's so cute lol. I know I can trust him and I think it's sweet when he makes some other womans day by giving her an honest compliment.
That is a tough one. I am a flirt by nature, however I don't ever take it too far. So I will say that:





It is ok to flirt with others when you are married as long as your spouse is comfortable in your relationship and you do not cross any personal boundries that he/she has.
I think its ok and understandable as long as its not all the time..people are attractive and even married people acknowledge that not just single people..just make sure its not done infront of your partner and do not do it all the time! once in a while its fine...like if you make a mistake or catch yourself doing it unintentionally don't punish yourself!
I don't see the problem with it...


some people flirt just to make others feel good about themselves..


So flirting= good..


but in case you're doing it, don't go over the edge cause you could be single again!





flirting ';DOES NOT'; mean you're trying to get with someone or trying to cheat on your mate!
That answer is determined 100% by your relationship with your spouse. My wife and I both do it. But we also talk about it openly between us. I would say that if you can't talk about it with your spouse after you do it, you shouldn't be doing it.
Friendly flirting is okay and harmless, especially if your spouse doesn't become insecure over it...if there's any intent or you are leading someone on with your flirting, or you know it seriously troubles your partner, then it's not kewl....
I say no. If you're doing something that would piss you off if your partner did it to you, then you shouldn't be doing it. I would be ticked if my fiance was flirting with other women, so I do not flirt with other men.
odds are if you are doing something that you wouldn't do if your spouse was watching then you shouldn't be doing it.
Probably not!
NO.marriage is not just love but also is a commitment and trust......it cannot be broken
I don't think it's ok to flirt because flirting is what leads to cheating then divorce....
negative negative negative...thats a quick way to get in a lot of trouble!!!
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What are some signs that your partner/spouse is cheating?

If you know from personal experience, then which were you in the relationship? The cheater, or the one being cheated on? This question is for both men and women.What are some signs that your partner/spouse is cheating?
When ur in a relationship u just kno when the other 1 is actin outta character, its the little things that add up %26amp; start ringing the alarm bells, no matter how clever they think they are. I was cheated on, it sucks big time.What are some signs that your partner/spouse is cheating?
If the person is a good liar, you will never know.
If they are really jumpy and say things like ';what mistress?'; when you just say good morning or something.
finding them in bed with another person naked.


seeing video of them screwing someone else.


seeing them asking about it online .
i was cheated on and i knew because he would get nervous if i mentioned his ex and thats who he cheated on me with. They also get very defensive if u ask them if they did cheat on you and they make lies about where they r going and who they will be with.
The classic one is finding extra charges on the credit card bill that are unexplained. They are usually things like gifts, dinners out, and motel nights.
1. They start working a lot of overtime:





He/She is working late hours more often


More out of town trips suddenly


Sudden trips to work at weird hours





2. Your Lover / Spouse is no longer interested in sex:


Huge Red Flag!





3. They like to say '; It's your imagination';:


Chances are if you suspect it - it is true.





4. They use the internet excessively:





You find your spouse is constantly online late at night when you go to bed.


Closes window or computer when you come in room.


Very defensive about spending time on the computer more often than usual.





5. Suddenly wanting to do new sexual techniques:


Where did they learn that?





6. You keep receiving hang up phone calls:


Why? - the person on the other end doesn't want to talk to you?





7. They start wearing different kinds of clothing,


start working out, pay more attention to the way they look....





8. They stop wearing their wedding ring:





Anyway, this is a few of the signs...My husband cheated on me!!!


I hired a private detective because my husband also turned into a big liar!!
I don't know
smell their crotch when they come home
if the sex feels different and if he or she does different things in the bed they never did before
I was cheated on. His personality changed. He was a lot meaner and even distant. He worked long hours and he would leave to go to the store and not come back for a long time. Sometimes he was overly ';friendly';. He would encourage me to go out with the girls, when I got back the house would seem different. Your instincts tell you something is wrong. Always trust your instincts.
She's been to my house. That is a sure sign.
Attitude is HUGE. If there is a change for NO real reason. Lack of wanting to do family things. Change of plans, becuase they do not want to be seen with you or family members in case that ';other'; person is out there and they meet.
does not answer cell phone


quit hooking up with you


he dresses nicer


smells better


new cologne


new haircut


hides personal stuff


secretive


angry


sneaky


odd behavior
he at work all day and comes home smelling like he just got out the shower or you ask him where he was and he answer and then wait a week later and ask the same question and you get another answer he or she is cheating
';bobbyjo'; 's answer says it all .........
The man thinks his girl is cheating, its very easy to find out.


All you have to is make love to her.


If the female thinks he is cheating on her, he will wash up after sex before he comes home if he is smart and don;t use soap, but the thing he will fail to do is pick out the pubic hairs from the lady he just banged and if they are different in color he's busted.
neither of them.
When he comes home ask to have sex and see how 'tired' he is.





When you go down, note the odor and look for lipstick and hair.
being ';busy'; all the time, bad attitude/behavior towards u, ignoring u, an unconvincing explaination 4 having evidence of cheating. from experience, i was the 1 cheated on. my ex was acting like ';crap'; everytime he saw me.
i was the one cheated on.They usually start showering at night when they come home more frequently, they dont want sex and aren always pre occupied, they might not physically cheat on you but mentally they are thinking about other partners, they become defensive because they are guilty, they start blaming you for thier you catch them in weird lies.
I was the one being cheated on......AT FIRST!!!!!!! My signs were-there was NOTHING wrong. Everything was all hunky-dorey!
you will know!the first sighn is he would be guilty and start being caring and acting weird when with you!
they say if your partner/spouse is TOO friendly it means guilt.. so watch out for those surprise-no-occasion gifts..





if he's generally not interested in being with you and prefers to go to work .. work late... or be with his ';friends';





I'm neither the cheater or the cheatee.. i hope we stay this way
Do yourself a favour and hire a private investigator. None of this half guessing stuff.
i was the one being cheated on.


its the little things that start adding up. coming home later, not spending time with you, taking a shower before they say hello, talking on the phone and hanging up when you walk into the room.





mine was different because the sex stayed the same. there was no change in the sex life.





somehow you just know that something isnt quite right and you cant put your finger on it for sure.





when i found out that my man was cheating on me with my best friend who was more than a sister to me, i was devastated. not only did i loose the man who said that he would love me and be there forever, but i lost the best friend who was supposed to be there for me to use her shoulder. it took a long time to get over that.





and even longer to be able to trust anybody again. but...... i met a man who became my friend for over a year, then when we started seeing each other seriously, we had a great foundation for a relationship. its been 10 years and neither of us are going anywhere.





we have survived kids, his mine ours. we have survived everything so far and we will still survive because we have the foundation that we both needed to make it work.





he was smart enough to know that i was not ready for a real relationship when we met and he waited for me. i really respect him for that.
They watch their cell phone like it is a small child, it goes to the bathroom with etc. He may have to work late, alot, when before did not, personal hygiene rises, not to say he was gross before but now that gas station tshirt with a lightening bolt across the front with a grease stain and hole just wont do to go hang with the guys. And my favorite ....he will accuse you. His guilty conscience is appeased by turning the blame to you.
smell their *****
I was the one cheated on and to tell you the truth, I had no idea until he left me for her. We were together for 2 years, 1 of which we lived together. He waited for me to do my night rotations at the hospital and the went out for the prowl. It hurts and it sucks, but life goes on. If your asking the question though, then you must have some feeling that something is going on.

My spouse flirts with other women on the internet is this cheating?

He has cheated on me once befor and tells me more then once that he doesnt like me and that if i was doing what i am supposed to be doing he wouldnt have to talk to other womenMy spouse flirts with other women on the internet is this cheating?
He is crazy to think that you are the reason for his infidelity. You could still be the perfect wife and he would still do what he does. He has a sickness. Don't blame yourself. Tell him he needs to get help and if he doesn't you need to leave him, NOW!My spouse flirts with other women on the internet is this cheating?
Depends, on weather or not he's actively trying to hook up with these women, it could just be a source of entertainment for him and also a break from the boredom at home, if he's saying that you aren't doing your job, then its a self-esteem thing and perhaps you should stroke his ego more or better, if its sex then lose the prudish mannerism and get dirty with it, see xxxrated dvd's, or erotic books for help, You married this man so why hold back what he wants to be happy and for you to feel appreciated??.
Dicorce that asshole now! How can you be with someone that talks to you that way? I do think online flirting is cheating it is being intimate with someone else when he should be that way with you. If he has issues with you he should talk to you about it not go online and make things worse.
you need to talk to husband face to face, or write a mail to him, expressing you feeling and love, do not wait too long, there're so many seduction today, if you want to keep him,tell him, keep other woman away.
Having problems in the bedroom?, not technically he is cheating but it's not so innocent either, one day he could meet up with one of those women, if he hasn't already.
Yep this is cheating, he shouldn't be flirting with others...It sounds like you and your spouse need to be having a serious discussion....
That's how my X started. That's why he's my X. He carried it very far.

Women: Do you discuss menopause with your spouse?

If you aren't there yet, do you ever mention it? Do you think you will talk about it some day?


If it's happening now, are you communicating to him about it or keeping to yourself?


If it's over with, what communication did you have about it?Women: Do you discuss menopause with your spouse?
My wife has been dealing with perimenopause or some such thing for 7 years now. She told me it was the reason for a lot of things way back when, but 7-years on it seems like she'll be going through one stage of it or another indefinitely.Women: Do you discuss menopause with your spouse?
I'm not going through it. The only time it's mentioned is when I tell him I wish I would go through it early so I don't have to deal with periods anymore.


When the time comes I'm sure I will be vocal about it. No sense trying to hide the unavoidable. When my mom went through it, her moods were off and she turned off the furnace (in December, in Ohio, that's a pretty cold month). I think my husband would notice those things, even if I didn't tell him. I'm not ashamed of it, so what's not to talk about?
I'm at least 20 years far from menopause so it doesnt relate to me and i don't mention it, having said that, i do mention and openly talk about my fertility, period, hormones and other issues such as waxing facial hair and plucking etc.. and when i reach menopause i think i won't afraid of talking about it.. we talk about embarrassing stuff.. such as the rash on his butt and near his anus..etc
Hasn't happened yet. HE mentions it about once a month, you know which week. He can't wait for the interruptions to go away, as long as I promise to take hormone replacements, the hubby is all excited. Me, I just think of menopause as a part of being a woman.
I haven't started yet (I'm 25) but I will discuss it with my husband when the time comes. I discuss everything with my husband.
If mine hadn't, I would have Divorced her by now. The change is a cruel thing and can really put pressure on a marriage. Now that I understand it, I can be more supporting and patient.
Any guys who can't discuss in a clinical fashion bodily functions with their wives without giggling or using euphemisms like ';pee-pee'; and ';vee jay jay'; are immature little babies who need to grow up fast.
I discuss EVERYTHING with him.


And yes, he knows about my hot flashes and irritability. Why would someone NOT talk about it, and risk being percieved as crazy?
my husband and i discuss everything...and i mean everything...so of course once i start down the path of change discussions will come up.
LOL the few times i have said anything about my menstrual cycle he turns green. so i have no idea how he will react when i get to menopause.
Yeah once a mo. for 4 days a talk about it.. HOW I CANT WAIT FOR IT..lmao im 36 and sick and tired of this monthly garbage.
I am 33 right now and you don't want to be around me when I have PMS.

Have you ever got caught by your spouse?

pleasuring yourself?


Yesterday my husband came home for his lunch break a half hour early and caught me red handed. I was so embarrassed wondering what he was thinking, and then he made love to me. I jumped in the shower and when I came out he said that now I owe him something for my punishment. Is that fair? And has anyone ever been caught by their spouse or caught their spouse in this situation?Have you ever got caught by your spouse?
never been caught before, also never and will never catch her as she doesn't do it.


for most men its great turn on to watch woman mb.


I'm curious to know what punishment you will get, sure it will be HOT...zHave you ever got caught by your spouse?
For heavens sakes it's your husband. I'm sure it was a big turn on to him. My husband loves to watch me do that. If you can't do what you want in the privacy of your own home then where can you? I always thought that sex between a husband and wife was sacred and what you do with your own body is your prerogative and if he catches you then oh well. It must have turned him on or he wouldn't have made love to you. Walk in on him while he is showering some morning and most likely you will find him doing the same thing. It's normal.
He probably liked it. It does not matter if it is fair or not, look at it as a game. If you want to pleasure yourself and get caught, then you owe a ';sexual punishment.'; Sounds like a great way to spice up your marriage.
So you were masturbating.





I hate the fact that if a woman does it, it is wrong to do it.





I wonder if he wants you to catch him in the act and do him.





I have never been caught however thinking about it is a turn-on.
No this has never happened but if he ';caught'; me he would love it. There is nothing wrong with pleasuring yourself. Punishment? That is your body to do with as you please. He can't stop you from touching it.
no it won't be embarrassing it was only your husband. it would be different if your daddy caught you doing that.
I have been caught but it only makes my husband want me more. Play along with it. Let it be fun.
Never been caught and have never caught my husband but I would think that he you owe me is in a teasing way. Playful.
Your so lucky, sounds like an extra fun sexy time game to me....Im sure he loved catching you.... I would get started about 10-15 mins before he got home so that I could get punished again tomorrow!
That is really something......can't say that i've been in that situation, but if it pays off, then why not.
I try not to be caught but yes it will be really too embrassing..





but u knwo if I get to caught my girl I wont mind.

Have you ever had coitus with your spouse while staying over night at a friends house?

Sure. I mean a friends place is not quite the same as your parents or in-law's house. We might tone it done a bit but I think that it is safe to assume that as a guest, once you leave, people are going to change the linens and bedding that you used.





Sometimes we even strip the bed in an obvious indicator that the sheets should be washed. There is something kind of fun about sneaking in a little affection where it might be a little naughty or forward.





Luckily for me my wife kind of likes that sort of thing... I don't think we are inappropriate in any way but we have christened some odd places... lots of fun memories and sly smiles to share.Have you ever had coitus with your spouse while staying over night at a friends house?
Yes. Well, not overnight, but on Christmas. At his friend's house in the bathroom. We snuck away one by one, lol.Have you ever had coitus with your spouse while staying over night at a friends house?
Of course, many times, lol. We're happily married and always love the thrill of breaking in a new location.....using discretion of course.
Sure have, and families house too. As long as you're quite, and discreet I dont see a problem with it.
Not sure. If you are discreet. Quiet. Neat. What you do as a couple is your own business.
Heck yeah. Why wouldn't you? A true friend wouldn't mind.
Yes, but not in the guest bed.

Ladies how would u feel if your spouse has to take a job miles away and can only do the weekend commute?

It's a difficult, but survivable, situation. My husband is currently 3,000 miles from home, since November. We flew to him for the holidays, and he was here for 4 days a couple weeks ago, but that's it as far as commuting. It's not easy, but we talk every day, and we know it's temporary, so we can get through it.Ladies how would u feel if your spouse has to take a job miles away and can only do the weekend commute?
that would be so hard to be apart for that long that i would look to see if i could find a job out there or see how bad he needed the job and could he look more local. i wouldnt like it at allLadies how would u feel if your spouse has to take a job miles away and can only do the weekend commute?
If it was nec. for work/monies I could deal with it. I trust him, hes my best friend. I'd miss him terribly but you do what you must to get by. If I din't trust him, it might be different.
Well if thats a temporary thing i would have managed somehow. But if its a thing for atleast few years to come...i would have definitely moved with him
I would feel good about it. Looks like your spouse is taking the job to provide a better life in the long run for you.
Easy. We would both move to that place so we could be together.
I would hate it!
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DO you ever get sick of your spouse?

Here's the deal im not married yet but i have been with my guy for 5 years. The reason we didnt get married yet is we are not financially ready. The thing is im getting sick of him? Is that normal? If you have gotten sick of your spouse before how did you fix that problem? The reason that im asking here is because we practically are married.DO you ever get sick of your spouse?
It is known as 7 year itch although you are not married but live like married couple. In the 1955 movie ';The Seven Year Itch,'; Marilyn Monroe tempts her neighbor to stray while his wife and children are away for the summer. Ever since, the seven year itch -- a period of restless angst -- has been used as an excuse for infidelity.


Now, a study suggests that such an itch is often a reality. An evaluation of 93 married couples during their first 10 years of marriage showed two typical periods of decline. (A decline was defined as a decrease in marital quality measured by taking into account passion, satisfaction with the relationship, amount of shared activity, and agreement between the partners.) he marriages started with a bang (with passion usually high), but after the ';honeymoon effect'; wore off they showed a decrease in overall quality over the first four years. The marriages then tended to stabilize before another decline set in around year eight.


The first decline, is probably a normal adjustment to new roles; the second decline is often related to the birth of children. Couples experiencing the seven year itch disagree with each other more, become less affectionate, share fewer activities, and express overall dissatisfaction with their marriages.


Statistics support the idea of a seven year itch. According to the most current figures available from the National Center for Health Statistics, the median duration of marriage was 7.2 years for couples who divorced in 1989 and 1990. Consult your partner before making plans or decisions, and if you both do that, you'll find you both get to do more of your own things. Set aside time to talk on a daily basis, even if it's just 20 minutes. Take time to get dressed up and go out on dates. If a marriage succumbs to the seven year itch, it's most likely because the couple turned a blind eye to their problems instead of solving them.DO you ever get sick of your spouse?
Are you sure it is truly him that you are sick of or just the circumstances that you are in? You say you are not financially stable enough to get married? I am sure that must really bother you and maybe make you feel like he is less than a man for not providing for you both? Has he said or not said things to you that would make you feel this way?





No I never get sick of my spouse. He is so much a part of me. Yes we all get tired of certain things, but you work thru it. You work thru all the little problems that crop up. You work thru them and move forward.





It is only when one or both partners stop wanting to work on the relationship that you run into problems.
Yup. It's called marriage. You spent A LOOOOOT of time with your spouse, and it's completely natural.





You can do one of several things:





1. Take a day to yourself. Call into work one day during the week, when he has to go in, and make it all about you. Enjoy the time you have to yourself, and remind yourself how lucky you are to have your husband.


2. Make a date with the girls! And make him make a date with the guys. I am a FIRM believer that each person in a relationship needs to have their own thing - maybe he golfs with his buddies and you shop with your girls - whatever it is, do it. You won't get bored with each other so quick if you actually have stuff to talk about with each other.


3. On that note, you each need to develop or nurture your own hobbies. Not only should you find your hobby interesting, it should make you more interesting to your partner, and vice-versa. My husband fishes - he's passionate and almost downright philisophical about it. I love listening to his stories.


4. MAKE TIME TO SPEND REAL TIME WITH EACH OTHER. Yeah, the guy sitting next to you on the couch in his boxers watching a re-run of Family Guy IS the man you married, and he CAN get boring. But even just a weekend trip t a hotel...where the whole intent is the focus on each other...can be a great boost to your relationship, and help alleviate some of that boredom.





Good luck!!!
I can't say I have. Been together for 5 years, and look forward to coming home from work every day. We enjoy our time together. Actually, I was just reflecting on how much enjoyment I get from the relationship - I used to get very lonely when I was on my own, and now my life is more rewarding. If anything, we're closer now, after 5 years together.





Not sure that being ';sick'; of your S.O. is the right feeling to have after 5 years. Of course, marriage isn't all rainbows and butterflies, but I do feel that it should be positive on the balance. If you don't feel your relationship is positive overall, try to figure out why it is so. Do you guys have different goals? Do you feel abandoned/ignored/disrespected? Do you feel some fundamental needs are not being met? There's no one ';fix'; for it - first you need to identify what some of the problems are in your particular case, then address them as appropriate for your particular relationship. It's different for everyone.
Hell Yes, my husband has gotten on my nerves so bad that i wanted to run him over wit my car. But of course i didn't and i would not. Your level of ';sickness'; is the concern here. They are going to get on our nerves and at times, we are going to look at them and be like WTF? But if the love overrides these times you are fine, but if you find your self misrable more than happy, there is nothing to make that better, that MF just not for you.
No sick of him ,sometime I was to choke the crap out of him but I will be he wants to choke the crap out of me.......wait a couple of days it goes away. Been married for 30 years...I love him to much to leave, its only natural for this to happen to a certain point.
Yeah I get sick of my husband sometimes, I think it happens to everyone. Maybe you just need to break from your routine and do something spontaneous or out of the ordinary to make things more interesting.
Yes I do get sick of my spouse sometimes. It happens and other than just dealing with it, there is nothing you can do.





%26lt;------ My husband is practically perfect and I still get sick of him
Are you with each-other a lot? I think every couple need a certain amount of time apart. I don't mean a break, just some space every now and again, some time alone or with friends, or you will get sick of each-other.
You don't you get over it, you just get enough of it, throw up or blow up, make up and start the cycle all over again. Sorry!
When I get sick of my husband, I just make sure his restraints are tightly fastened. Then I leave the room for a while. It's sound proof, so I won't have to hear his smart a z z comments.
Sometimes well ok all the time I get sick of him but I just learn to work around it and tolerate it. But I'm not ever sick of loving him.
yah, i think thats completely normal. thats why you should be able to do your own things sometimes and not constantly be around each other 24/7
Only every day. If you aren't married and you aren't sure if he's the one, then don't do it.
get out now it only gets more boring after you are married
It's like the tide! hi %26amp; low- in %26amp; out!

When you were attracted to your bf/spouse, did you think others felt the same way you did about him/her?

I mean, that's where the green-eyed monster in you comes out.


If someone else liked your partner, would you wonder what attracted them to him?When you were attracted to your bf/spouse, did you think others felt the same way you did about him/her?
Yes! But you are the one who is with him! Isn't that great!





Don't worry about anyone else. He chose you! Besides I know he is not the only one who likes you! Right? And You chose him! Enjoy yourselves and each other.





Good Luck!When you were attracted to your bf/spouse, did you think others felt the same way you did about him/her?
Yes. I kinda wondered y I got him...because of that fact. But I did. HE picked me out of all the other possible girls he could've married. I should feel special...and I do, but the wonderment still gets to me sometimes. No. IF I liked him, I'd think other girls did too. And I'd assume why they did. Because I know I do..and I'd figure that's y.
Sure...I don't think I' the only person who has ever found anyone i've dated attractive, just as they aren't the only ones who've found me attractive. It's no reason for jealousy though...especially when he's with me, not someone else. 鈽?br>




If I knew someone else liked my partner, I wouldn't wonder why at all...I'd assume they are also attracted to at least some of the same qualities that I am.
No, and NO. I was and am surprised other women don't find him attractive and I am glad that he is mine! :)

My wife & I are celebrating our 43rd Anniversary today! How long have you & your spouse been married?

Actually, we observe two anniversaries every year, as we met for the first time on April 29, 1964 and were married on December 19, 1964. This was the first marriage for both of us and so far it has worked out! Praise the Lord! Has anyone else been married longer to your spouse? The first one who says they have will get ';Best Answer'; and 10 points! {:-)My wife %26amp; I are celebrating our 43rd Anniversary today! How long have you %26amp; your spouse been married?
Ok I have been married almost 7 or was that 8...haha!


Congrats! My parents have been married for 36 years, them too were only 1st weddings.


I remember thinking in school, wow your parents are divorced! B/C back then every one was married, now to the kids it is no big deal about the divorce--they are just surprised that people stay married.


So you are one of the blessed fortunate ones! You found some one that will put up w/ you and you can in turn, do the same, isn't that the best thing about REAL true love...it is work, but just so easy!


That is comitment, because your heart is in it.


The Bible says the two become one--how does a true 1 seperate it's self?


:)My wife %26amp; I are celebrating our 43rd Anniversary today! How long have you %26amp; your spouse been married?
Thank *all* of you for your answers and congratulations! I wish all of you long, happy, marriages to the one you love! God Bless and Merry Christmas to all!

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Congratulations.


my Hubby and I are 12 years in March. 1st for both of us too.





My Grandparents were 54 years when Grandpa passed away. The even made it thru world war 2 and the deaths of 2 babies (total 12 kids, 10 living....LOTS of grands and great-grands).





Wishing all of us many long happy years,
Well its not me only 16yrs for us ( thats like baby steps for you :)) Congradulations to you both!!!! And Merry Christmas too
sorry can't beat yours, just 9 yrs for us but congratulations.
We've been happily married for 19 years. My husband and I were just newlyweds when I enlisted in the Army during Desert Shield. I survived and so has our marriage. We now have an eleven year old daughter, too.
CONGRATS!! 43 years, WOW. Thanks WONDEFUL





My hubby %26amp; I just celebrated our 1st. anniversary this month. It's not a first marriage for either of us. He has been divorced twice and I was divorced once and widowed once at a very young age with young children. How I wish I would have made better choices my first time and stayed married forever to just 1 person. But then I would not have met my hubby and he really the best thing that has ever happened to my 4 son's and I.





Mary in Beulah, MI. USA
Not me-- but awesome Congratulations!
No, I have been married for 14 yrs, but my grandparants have been married for 62 yrs.





I would be luck to live to 62 yrs less be married for 62 yrs.
That is a wonderful thing and proves that love can last the test of time. I'm not even married, I've been dating my best friend for two years now and still going strong. I hope we can be as happy together as you and celebrate a 43rd anniversary. Congratulations. ;]
Congratulations! I havent been married longer but I have been married 8 years to my best friend of 14 years!
Great job!!! My parents were married for 52 years before my father passed away.
Not after the points! Wanted to congratulate you both on a job well done! I have been married to the same man for thirty-five years.
Congrats! We have been married 26 and plan on staying together till the end. God Bless all who stay married to one spouse!