What are some signs that your partner/spouse is cheating?

If you know from personal experience, then which were you in the relationship? The cheater, or the one being cheated on? This question is for both men and women.What are some signs that your partner/spouse is cheating?
When ur in a relationship u just kno when the other 1 is actin outta character, its the little things that add up %26amp; start ringing the alarm bells, no matter how clever they think they are. I was cheated on, it sucks big time.What are some signs that your partner/spouse is cheating?
If the person is a good liar, you will never know.
If they are really jumpy and say things like ';what mistress?'; when you just say good morning or something.
finding them in bed with another person naked.


seeing video of them screwing someone else.


seeing them asking about it online .
i was cheated on and i knew because he would get nervous if i mentioned his ex and thats who he cheated on me with. They also get very defensive if u ask them if they did cheat on you and they make lies about where they r going and who they will be with.
The classic one is finding extra charges on the credit card bill that are unexplained. They are usually things like gifts, dinners out, and motel nights.
1. They start working a lot of overtime:





He/She is working late hours more often


More out of town trips suddenly


Sudden trips to work at weird hours





2. Your Lover / Spouse is no longer interested in sex:


Huge Red Flag!





3. They like to say '; It's your imagination';:


Chances are if you suspect it - it is true.





4. They use the internet excessively:





You find your spouse is constantly online late at night when you go to bed.


Closes window or computer when you come in room.


Very defensive about spending time on the computer more often than usual.





5. Suddenly wanting to do new sexual techniques:


Where did they learn that?





6. You keep receiving hang up phone calls:


Why? - the person on the other end doesn't want to talk to you?





7. They start wearing different kinds of clothing,


start working out, pay more attention to the way they look....





8. They stop wearing their wedding ring:





Anyway, this is a few of the signs...My husband cheated on me!!!


I hired a private detective because my husband also turned into a big liar!!
I don't know
smell their crotch when they come home
if the sex feels different and if he or she does different things in the bed they never did before
I was cheated on. His personality changed. He was a lot meaner and even distant. He worked long hours and he would leave to go to the store and not come back for a long time. Sometimes he was overly ';friendly';. He would encourage me to go out with the girls, when I got back the house would seem different. Your instincts tell you something is wrong. Always trust your instincts.
She's been to my house. That is a sure sign.
Attitude is HUGE. If there is a change for NO real reason. Lack of wanting to do family things. Change of plans, becuase they do not want to be seen with you or family members in case that ';other'; person is out there and they meet.
does not answer cell phone


quit hooking up with you


he dresses nicer


smells better


new cologne


new haircut


hides personal stuff


secretive


angry


sneaky


odd behavior
he at work all day and comes home smelling like he just got out the shower or you ask him where he was and he answer and then wait a week later and ask the same question and you get another answer he or she is cheating
';bobbyjo'; 's answer says it all .........
The man thinks his girl is cheating, its very easy to find out.


All you have to is make love to her.


If the female thinks he is cheating on her, he will wash up after sex before he comes home if he is smart and don;t use soap, but the thing he will fail to do is pick out the pubic hairs from the lady he just banged and if they are different in color he's busted.
neither of them.
When he comes home ask to have sex and see how 'tired' he is.





When you go down, note the odor and look for lipstick and hair.
being ';busy'; all the time, bad attitude/behavior towards u, ignoring u, an unconvincing explaination 4 having evidence of cheating. from experience, i was the 1 cheated on. my ex was acting like ';crap'; everytime he saw me.
i was the one cheated on.They usually start showering at night when they come home more frequently, they dont want sex and aren always pre occupied, they might not physically cheat on you but mentally they are thinking about other partners, they become defensive because they are guilty, they start blaming you for thier you catch them in weird lies.
I was the one being cheated on......AT FIRST!!!!!!! My signs were-there was NOTHING wrong. Everything was all hunky-dorey!
you will know!the first sighn is he would be guilty and start being caring and acting weird when with you!
they say if your partner/spouse is TOO friendly it means guilt.. so watch out for those surprise-no-occasion gifts..





if he's generally not interested in being with you and prefers to go to work .. work late... or be with his ';friends';





I'm neither the cheater or the cheatee.. i hope we stay this way
Do yourself a favour and hire a private investigator. None of this half guessing stuff.
i was the one being cheated on.


its the little things that start adding up. coming home later, not spending time with you, taking a shower before they say hello, talking on the phone and hanging up when you walk into the room.





mine was different because the sex stayed the same. there was no change in the sex life.





somehow you just know that something isnt quite right and you cant put your finger on it for sure.





when i found out that my man was cheating on me with my best friend who was more than a sister to me, i was devastated. not only did i loose the man who said that he would love me and be there forever, but i lost the best friend who was supposed to be there for me to use her shoulder. it took a long time to get over that.





and even longer to be able to trust anybody again. but...... i met a man who became my friend for over a year, then when we started seeing each other seriously, we had a great foundation for a relationship. its been 10 years and neither of us are going anywhere.





we have survived kids, his mine ours. we have survived everything so far and we will still survive because we have the foundation that we both needed to make it work.





he was smart enough to know that i was not ready for a real relationship when we met and he waited for me. i really respect him for that.
They watch their cell phone like it is a small child, it goes to the bathroom with etc. He may have to work late, alot, when before did not, personal hygiene rises, not to say he was gross before but now that gas station tshirt with a lightening bolt across the front with a grease stain and hole just wont do to go hang with the guys. And my favorite ....he will accuse you. His guilty conscience is appeased by turning the blame to you.
smell their *****
I was the one cheated on and to tell you the truth, I had no idea until he left me for her. We were together for 2 years, 1 of which we lived together. He waited for me to do my night rotations at the hospital and the went out for the prowl. It hurts and it sucks, but life goes on. If your asking the question though, then you must have some feeling that something is going on.