To the married folks online tonight: Is your spouse also your best friend?

A best friend can be defined in more than one way. If you mean best friend as in, someone who is there for me all the time and sticks with me no matter what ...then yea. If you mean the kind of best friend you love to hang out with, talk to, and laugh and have fun with then no.To the married folks online tonight: Is your spouse also your best friend?
i am married to my best friend. but even after weve been together for 4 years its still feels just like best friends. weve never fought or argued and have so much in common. but thats all it is. i mean i love him but theres no passion, no heat...





im happy with my life but i feel more like hes my soul mate, that i didnt actually pick him. it sounds like im complaining haha. im not...we just have a weird relationship.





my friends always complain to me ';its not fair, you have this perfect relationship and blah blah';. we get along so well and we have all the same interests so we have so much fun hanging out. i love it i really do...but wheres the spark?





i guess its hard to explain.To the married folks online tonight: Is your spouse also your best friend?
Absolutely. Granted, there's a difference between the friendship a husband and wife have and a husband and a best guy friend have. That's a totally different relationship dynamic and it's not really valid to compare them. Apples to oranges, and all that.
He is the one person that I know I could tell anything to , and he would still love me ...warts and all :) so I suppose that's what a best friend is. Married 40yrs and still work on our marriage ever hour, every day, every week, every month, every year.
Nobody else understands and accepts me as she does. Nobody else is as patient as her, cares as much and nobody else loves me, unconditionally, as she does.





So, yeah, absolutely. And vice versa.
My man is definitely my best friend. He is the only person on the planet who knows every pain, event, happiness, problem, and tradgedy, I have ever been through. He is my confidante'. I thank God for him everyday.
No.





I'm his, but he's not mine. I wish he was; he has been, and maybe will be again, I don't know. But, I do think that is the marital 'holy grail.' :)
I am my husband's best friend but he is not always mine. I sometimes can't stand him and can barely stand to be in the same room as him.
yes, no doubt about it, the way I see it is him before anyone else, 10 years from now i will have forgotten so and so but he will still be there
Yes, he is. He was my best friend before we got married and 20+ years later he still is.
He was, but a friend does not make the person he claims to love his second choice in every aspect of his life.
Yes, absolutely. :)
No. My best friend I talk to about women.
Yes.
Yes my husband is my bestfriend..hope he considers me as one. ;-P
yep